All the rules about forgiveness are doubly true when it comes to forgiveness of self. Many addicts experience such guilt about their addictions that forgiving themselves is the last thing they think about, but often the most important for true healing.  Note from the author: After years of recovery, I felt the forgiveness of God […]

The process of inner healing is often a long one. It requires the uncomfortable task of digging deep into one’s inner wounds. Our shame, our false self or false identities and thus resolving the denial of, or limited affirmation we all experience in our early years of life.   Once much of the hard work has […]

by Paul Fallzoffhishorse. Are you really in the proper condition to receive the Body of Christ?  Do you struggle with the details of your spiritual journey?  I do.   Do I need to confess that?  Have I confessed that already?  When that selfish thought enters my mind, I know that it was not of God.   Am […]

Ladies, let’s see if you relate to any of these feelings. You have been deceived, betrayed, cheated on, and you probably feel violated and disregarded. You feel like you’ve been kicked in the stomach. You bounce from being angry and resentful to feeling humiliated and hurt. You may even want to run, thinking it will […]

Fighting the battle of pornography, lust, or any sexual sin must never be done alone. At its root, the battle of sexual sin is a spiritual battle. This means it’s between you and Satan. Any wise man knows to NEVER face Satan alone!  So how do you fight porn addiction? Think of it like going […]

As we continue our series about the brain and how porn impacts it, we discover that porn addicts are actually drug addicts.  Chemically, Pornography Is Nearly Identical to Heroin Addiction Can that be true? That seems like a stretch! Well, according to several specialists in the neural science field, it is accurate. Here is a […]

Introducing Pornography to the Brain What happens when we don’t obey the natural design of our bodies—namely, our brains? When we aren’t true to our original purpose of creation? It may be helpful to consider a few common examples of what happens when we don’t use our bodies as designed. One example is when people […]

Let’s admit it. The arguments we hear against porn are often based on how unethical and how immoral it is. How consuming porn is a sin, and we’re all going to hell for it. How looking at sex on the internet, nude women in magazines or even sexually explicit movies are bad. These views can […]

This week we tackle the very essence of our unwanted behaviors. Whether you are an addict or simply find yourself not behaving the way you would like to, there is a root spiritual and human nature reason.  This enigma is even revealed in scripture where Paul writes:  “I do not understand my own actions. For […]

We’ve all heard the scripture verse, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away; it is better for you to lose one of your members than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right-hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw […]